I think I’d be good for you.
But you don’t need me.
I think I’d be good for you.
But you don’t need me.
To the beautiful, multi-talented one. Dark hair, pale skin, lips made for verbal evisceration. How can you just look like that? Do you know what I look like when I go to work? I look like shit. You don’t even have to consider it, do you, the way that clothes might fall on you, the way your hair will move in the wind. Every fucking day, I have to consider how best I can conceal myself. And your beauty falls off you in spades. I despise you for it. But I love you for it. And you don’t even know my name.
To the tall, invaluable one. Rosy cheeks like you’re out of some fucking Christmas cartoon special. Hair gel always perfect and sweet-smelling. Plaid and khakis and your $300 stethoscope. You are more intelligent than I will ever be. You have accomplished more in your life than I can even comprehend. Sad little poor girl trying to get into vet school, and you can spout off pharmacology and surgical procedures while you’re taking a dump. You have no idea how much I envy you.
To the wasteful, successful glutton. Shiny head and shiny toys along with it. If you sold every single one of your “accidental extra purchases,” you could probably afford sustenance for an entire state. “Oh, it’s Tuesday. Target’s New Release day. Better buy something. But wait, I think I own that already, don’t I? Oh well. I’ll keep that one in the plastic wrap. It’s a collectible, you know.” I HATE that you can go to a world where I wish I truly did exist. I hate that you can fly without feeling like you’re in a coffin. I hate that you can afford to be generous, and that you can give people what they want for holidays or random days because I have never and will never make as much as you do.
To the sultry-eyed, smoky-voiced one. So honest and well-spoken. Flexible in body but not in spirit. You warn against comparing yourself to other people, but it’s like Da Vinci pointing at your stick figure drawing and saying, “That’s so cute.” Every camera loves you, every headphone loves you. You tweet fortune-cookie adages, and when I look at them, I click on the heart, but there’s an emptiness in my chest where I tried to hollow out the jealousy.
How am I supposed to let go?
You can call it a cage
but I know it as my haven
The lights only come through
from bars that
keep me safe
It’s cold sometimes
but my shivering
won’t bother anyone else
But to be honest
I despise my own company
And this voice
is becoming too much
She remembers everything
their angry faces
their pressing hands
Sticks and stones
do break bones
but those can mend
Words are like knives
cutting holes and
So what do you do
when all that
Sometimes, I’m awake.
I’m not unhappy. Nor have I let go of sorrow. (That cloak is my old stand-by, you know.)
But I find myself wandering in the night. Why would I leave the bed where she slumbers so peacefully, stretching like a cat and smelling the way she does? I go to the living room and sit in darkness. No, it’s not a metaphor. Here I sit, staring at a screen that’s a little too bright, but damn, I don’t know how to turn the screen brightness down on this thing, and what a fucking first-world problem.
What compels us to leave our partners’ sides? Why do we seek some kind of — is “solace” the right word? — in blackened rooms with only the moon-lit blinds to illuminate the curves of the furniture?
Not everything sleeps at night.
The cats are awake. Though I can’t see them, I can hear them, their pitter-patter across the floor, the soft jingle of a toy, the lapping of their tongues at the water bowl. The dog sleeps as languorously as the girlfriend does, stretched out and breathing a world of dreams.
When I was a child, I was so terrified of being in the dark that I would stop drinking fluids after 6pm to avoid having to use the bathroom in the middle of the night. Not a single strand of hair spilled over the side of my pillow. Not a fraction of an ankle ever went uncovered by a blanket to be exposed to the monstrous night.
Darkness was a great fear.
And yet here I sit, night after night, in this saturated stasis that once frightened me so.
I believe I could scare myself very easily right now. I could think of disfiguring things, of rocking chairs moving by themselves, of eyes lurking behind doorways. And yet…I feel a sense of peace that I don’t feel in the daylight.
And it’s in the darkness that the words always come, burgeoning out of me, drawing me up and out of bed like a puppeteer and its marionette. I always have so much to say, but I never say it because I never think it’s worth saying. Some days, I think my sporadic writing is for the best. Other days, I feel I’m doing a disservice to the written word.
If I were a word, wouldn’t I want to be written?
How awful then to be a story, a memory, a lyric, a stanza, and to never be expressed.
… this screen is too fucking bright.
On the evening of June 11 2016, I fell asleep beside the love of my life. I met this person three years ago. I read a blog. The words were raw and beautiful and haunting, and I would irrevocably fall in love with the author.
On the morning of June 12 2016, I awoke to the sight of the love of my life stroking my hair. I could see unshed tears and a sorrow that I knew I’d never be able to dispel for the rest of our lives.
Before saying anything, I was warned in a choked voice: “Don’t look at the internet.”
But the first thing you do when told not to look down from a great height is to look down.
I looked down.
Forty-nine. Dead. Somewhere in Orlando. Forty-nine. 49. That’s a football team. 49. That’s an odd number. Forty-nine. That’s three syllables. Four. Tee. Nine. Dead. Dead is only one syllable. Like a drum beat. But it’s a drum beat that’s been stopped.
I only had the number. And then I was told the location of the slaughter: a queer-friendly club.
I rolled over to my side and looked at the slivers of sunlight through the blinds. “I need to garden today,” I said in a monotone.
I have a vagina. The love of my life happens to have a vagina.
To some, I am sick. I am a violation of nature. I am damned. I am misinformed. I am going through a phase. I am confused. I am experimenting. I am purposefully behaving radically.
My three-year-old nephew recently whispered to his grandmother that I loved my girlfriend, and that we were going to get married. And then he smiled. To my nephew, I am not a label. I am simply alive.
People have beliefs. I have beliefs. There are differences in everything, from the number of white blood cells in a body, to marijuana legislation, to brand name vs store brand, to right-handed and left-handed. Life is a product of differences.
So technically, it doesn’t really matter if you believe that what happened in Orlando was right or wrong. What I believe about it doesn’t matter either. Because at the end of the day, forty-nine people stopped existing. Because of one man, the lives of forty-nine people stopped. Just, stopped. Those are the cards on the table. Except they aren’t cards but lives, and the table is a scuffed nightclub floor.
On the evening of June 12 2016, my girlfriend fell asleep before I did. I listened to her steady breathing, kissed the bare skin of her shoulder, and quietly sobbed against her back. For the love that I felt for her. For the rightness of it to me, to her. For the forty-nine people who won’t ever fall asleep again because they’re asleep forever now.
Be on whatever soapbox you want. Pontificate or garner votes or condemn with whatever god’s lightning bolt. But for the sake of sake…have some fucking goddamn respect for the dead.
The heat makes me remember you. And I hate that I remember you.
Wings must be an awful thing
leather & cord & bastard ambre
or isoflurane blue
It’s not like there are jackets
for that sort of thing
To conceal buoyancy?
To keep flight a secret?
They must grow heavy over time
like long hair, wet with shampoo
tipping your chin up
like a pendulum
Would I do it?
Could I fly?
Afraid of heights, but not of falling
Falling, I’ve done.
Fear, I’ve known.
That’s just perspective, isn’t it.